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Monday, June 11, 2012

Visit to Ivy Hollow


The Mazda bumped and rolled painstakingly slow over the narrow, gravel driveway, the car rising over each large stone that protruded as if to ward off vehicles. "The rocks weren't so big last year," said the driver. But they seemed bigger and more forlorn now, like they molded together over the lonely winter. The car crept down the drive and around a bend, until its passengers could see the country home nestled in the middle of northern Wisconsin farm country.

A farm tractor and equipment lay strewn about, forgotten, not having been put to use for some time. Wild rose bushes climbed up a fence in the front of the house and the front yard was surrounded by a picket fence and gate. The grass was long and weeds grew up with it, but in this wild and untamed growth, there was a beauty. The grasses and bushes seemed to hug the house but not in a menacing, haunted way, blocking off light – rather in a veiled way as though possessing a secret, hiding a mystery. 

The man opened the gate and turned the key in the front door lock. His girl followed behind. A smile broke across her face when they stepped inside, into the high ceilinged, open concept house with wood floors and large windows looking out over the land. The home was filled with things of its owners, revealing that the man’s parents lived here for a long time and came back occasionally. This was the boy’s home.

The two of them stood on the deck, looking at it all, him showing her things, their light talk mixed with quiet silence and silence mixed with awe. He gave her inexpensive wine to drink, but to them it was as full and rich as the moon in its fullness. All this could be his inheritance or his own for a price. One possible future opened up before their eyes, almost too bright to behold with a taste as sweet and intoxicating as the wine in their glasses. Would this beautiful, enchanting place be theirs one day? Was it what he wanted? Was it what she dreamed?

On Ivy Hollow, fields of grasses lay stretched around the house, woods loomed in the near distance, and fruit trees kept company in an orchard perched atop a hill. Light and shadow danced on the long grasses, which rustled in the wind and moved like waves in all various patterns.

He led her down to the enclosed garden, fenced round with ivy growing up the sides. As they approached, they could hear the door of the garden creaking on its broken hinge and banging softly against the fence in the wind. Inside was a tangled mess of wild growth – weeds, burrs and bushes in a frenzy to take over, while flowering plants pushed their white blossoming heads out of the growth to prove their faithfulness. How much work, how much sacrifice, would it take, the girl wondered, to restore this to its former beauty or to fashion it anew?

Youth and adulthood mingled in the man and his girl like the mix of all wild growth here. Was he a child looking back at time, or a man straining his eye to the horizon? Was she a girl frolicking in the fields of her imagination, or a writer with hands nurturing the land and raising up a new generation? Was he ready to commit to such responsibility and did he have what it would take?

Perhaps, it was questions like these, and more, that were the reason for their thoughtful silence on the ride home, when just the sound of the Mazda humming down the country highway could be heard, and the feeling of something too immense for words could be felt between them in the touch of his hand.

Saturday, June 18, 2011

Integrity, Shape & Radiance

I'm not one of those girls who obsesses over make-up and fingernail polish. I've never even had a pedicure or manicure in my life. But I decided it's time to have some good ol' girl talk on here.


Let's consider how much time we women spend in a day or in a week beautifying ourselves...and I mean washing our hair, styling our hair, deciding what to wear, trimming our nails, putting on make-up, checking ourselves in the mirror - and those are just the basics! And then consider this: how much time did you spend today or in the past week working on your inner beauty? By this I mean: a kind heart, listening, loving, affirming others, etc.
Compare the two. How do the hours measure up? If you are like me, this will put things into a new perspective! So what can we do to foster more inner beauty? The kind that shines through our eyes and radiates from our heart into the deeds we do?

A beauty consultant once told me at a workshop that the elements of beauty are: integrity, shape and radiance. These are the keys to looking great.

But on a spiritual level, what does it look like to be a beautiful woman of God? If virtues were lipstick, mascara, jewelry and flowers, how would we be adorned?

Last week, I gave a talk about “Mary: the Warrior Princess” to a group of women, and I challenged them next time they glance at themselves in the mirror to do a Marian Makeover. Mary was the Mother of God. Her perfect obedience and purity of heart and body made her the most beautiful woman that ever lived. She was a woman of integrity, because she was fully integrated in who she was as Theotokos, the God-bearer. She carried God within her and she was the first Christian, the first to carry Him to others. Mary was "in shape," because she had all her priorities in order and was well-endowed in virtue. Mary was radiant with joy, peace and love, because she was full of God's grace. She was filled with love for her God that spilled over onto all of God's creation.
As we stare into the mirror today, and this week, let's call to mind what we need to "put on" to become more beautiful women from the inside out. Let's strive to mirror Mary in her 10 virtues and through our feminine genius spread the beauty of God...



Tips for a Marian Make-Over
1. SOAP & WATER....Total Mortification
Today I will die to selfish desires and sin so that Christ can live fully in me. I accept and take up my daily cross with joy.
2. HAIR.... Continual Mental Prayer
Raise my mind to heaven today. Remember how Mary was always conversing with God the Father, God the Son and God the Holy Spirit.
3. EYEBROWS & WRINKLES.... Divine Wisdom
God’s thoughts are not our thoughts, nor are our ways His ways (Is. 55:8-9). Let God surprise you today as you see His greater design in everything.
4. EYES.... Profound Humility
True humility is seeing things the way they really are. Today I will look at myself and others as God does, seeing nothing more and nothing less.
5. LIPS.... Surpassing Purity
Purity is freedom from anything that debases or pollutes. May holiness permeate my mind, my heart, and the words of my mouth today.
6. YOU SMELL GOOD!.... Angelic Sweetness
To be angelic is to reflect the face of God. Sweetness is fresh and new, kind and attractive. “We are the aroma of Christ for God” (2 Cor. 2:15).
7. SMILE.... Ardent Charity
Glowing love – love infused with the Spirit of God. Mary’s works of service came from a heart glowing with love for God.
8. WHAT TO WEAR.... Heroic Patience
Endure with courage whatever frustrations and trials come my way.
9. HANDS.... Lively Faith
Faith is a gift as well as an act of ours. Mary lived her faith by serving others.
10. BEAUTIFUL FEET.... Blind Obedience
Like a child holding her father’s hand, I entrust myself to God’s Will. I am the handmaid of the Lord. Let it be done to me according to His word.


"Your adornment should not be an external one: braiding the hair, wearing gold jewelry, or dressing in fine clothes, but rather the hidden character of the heart, expressed in the imperishable beauty of a gentle and calm disposition, which is precious in the sight of God." (1 Pet. 3:3-4)

"Charm is deceptive and beauty fleeting; the woman who fears the Lord is to be praised." (Prov. 31:30).